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Lies – The Trickle-Down Effect


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On any given day, the spirit-being-having-a-human-experience will spout off, on average, 1 to 2 lies per day. However, statistics for adult lying are all over the map. Parents are apparently major victims of liars, with children lying 86% of the time to those responsible for their health, wealth and well-being. Ninety percent of online dating participants are untruthful. Resumes are said to contain 31% of untruths. Thirteen percent of patients lie to their doctors about a variety of issues. Perhaps the most shocking research statistic is that 60% of people over 18 years of age are incapable of having a conversation without spinning a tall untruth once every ten minutes.

            I recall having tackled this subject here before. I pride myself in not "stretching the truth"; however, I always lie to any doctors I visit because some of their questions are none of their business or not relevant to my health issue at hand. I should probably answer, "none of your business." That would take bold action to a new level, yes?

            I told a bald-faced lie the other day under the personal pretense of not hurting the feelings of the person I was lying to. She called to ask if my husband and I could go with her and her husband together to an event. My husband doesn't really care for her husband, so I lied and said I had a pressing work issue and could not go. No big deal, right? Wrong! I wanted to go work in my garden, and they live down the street. They would have to pass my house to leave and would have seen me "not working."

            I just created my own prison with what I considered a “little white lie.” Not only couldn’t I go play in my garden, BUT my gut was stirring with guilt because I have worked on NOT telling any lies and I broke my commitment to my commitment. In fact, not lying is a conscious change I demanded of myself over fifteen years ago. Guilt is an emotion that automatically attaches when one fails in their own intentions. In other words, guilt is self-assigned and I did a dandy job of assigning it to myself upon my lie.

            Not being able to cope with my physical and emotional (guilt) imprisonment, I called my friend and told her my work issue was resolved (another lie), and we would love to go with them, husband be damned! Whew. Why am I covering for him with lies from MY mouth?

            My point is that lies are deceitful. Lies create unwanted boundaries. Lies have trickle down effects.   Most lies are subtle: "I'm fine," when I'm really not or "no problem" in response to someone apologizing for being late. Being late is disrespectful of me and my time. Taking that which is not yours is a lie. Gossiping is a lie. Lie. Lie. Lie.

            Since you're reading this blog, it might be time to be a bold truth-teller. Lying about your age? Stop. Complimenting someone's cooking that you didn't like? Stop. Faking interest in someone or something you have no interest in? Stop. Did you forget to make your mortgage or rent payment this month and call whoever you didn't pay with an excuse designed by Disney? Stop!

            Live by the facts. Like it or not, and watch the Universe respond in kind with serendipitous events. A major lie trickle down is that lies damage one's electromagnetic field. One's EMF is the gateway for good AND evil. One sets the vibrational pattern of one's EMF with one's words and thoughts. We have the power. Why lose it with lies? The choice, of course, is ALWAYS yours. Trickle up with your words, not down!

            Just sayin’.

 

AFFIRMATION: ALL my words speak truth.


“I'm Catherine Wilcox, working to help others see that God is in all things, all the time, through conscious change and self-healing.”

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